Make a conscious choice to keep sex in the foreground of your relationship.
Couples who have lasting, loving relationships make sex a priority. In fact, many couples schedule their “sex playdates”. They know when they will have time -- it eliminates missed cues around sexual interest -- so it's something they look forward to, and the anticipation adds to the overall flavor of their relationship.
- A sexual relationship that is both fun and loving is also a great way to keep infidelity at bay.
- Resist letting “busy” block your intimate connection.
- Schedule kids activities around your relationship needs, not the other way around.
The best thing you can do for your kids is not driving them to events, sports, and lessons. Rather, it's showing them you and your partner a happy, loving couple.